if a bar and bar mitzvah isn't about family i don't know what is. these kids would not be there without you, the parents, and they would not be who they are without their siblings, grandparents, and extended family.
groups are hard. kids of all ages struggle. i will help make the process as painless as possible. if you need quick and dirty that is what you will get. if everybody is game to try something new, i'm your guy. together we make it happen, even if they fall asleep by the end.